"True love thrives in the balance of independence and connection, where we are whole on our own and even more powerful together."
Love is a balance between holding on and letting go. I've often been scared of being left behind, so I sometimes hold on too tightly. Recently, I embraced the idea that love is strongest when it allows for freedom. I learned to set my partner and myself free, realizing that true strength comes from being whole, both alone and together. It felt beautiful, pure, and liberating.
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Here is a reflection on free and independent love from someone who struggles with attachment and letting go. I am happy to share with you what I've discovered on this journey towards independence and deeper, freer love.
I can go this way on my own.
I set you free.
I want you by my side.
I am strong.
With you I am even stronger.
You are my friend.
I have so much fun with you.
It feels easy.
Even the toughest moments.
I would be happy to continue this life journey with you.
I am strong and powerful alone.
You are strong and powerful alone.
Together we are even stronger and more powerful.
We are magic.
Life is a beautiful dance of independence and connection. By embracing free love, I found strength in myself and our relationship. We are powerful on our own, but together, we become a force of nature. I've discovered a love that grows with freedom and respect. We are whole individuals choosing to share this gift of human experience, stronger in our unity. This journey of love and independence continues, bringing us closer to the purest form of connection.
How do you practice and celebrate unity in your relationship while maintaining personal independence?
Love. Let Go. Grow Together.
With Love and Balance,
Victoria 🌸
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